Advice: Missing food

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Q. Shortly after I moved into my flat I noticed that bits of my food kept going missing, nothing big just some milk or bread would be taken. I wouldn’t mind if people asked me first but I don’t know how to bring it up with my flat.

A. If you get on quite well with your flatmates then sit them down and have a chat. Try not to be accusing even if you have suspicions on who might be taking your food. Say that you don’t mind if people have run out of food just you wish they would ask you first. If this doesn’t help or if you really do not get along with your flatmates, try keeping your food in your room, or you can talk to the student support services or your accommodation provider.

Advice: Loud music

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Q. One of my flatmates plays really loud music all through the day and then into the early morning. It’s really annoying when I am trying to sleep or do work. It’s fun when we are predrinking to have music but when people are trying to do work it can be frustrating. I have tried to ask politely for him to turn the music down but he does for about ten minutes then blasts it out again. Help!

A. Some people seem to enjoy having their music on all the time. Try again to compromise with him, ask him if he could have his music off by a certain time. If the problem continues then you can go and talk to the accommodation staff. If you get on well with your flatmates then maybe have a chat with everyone and ask if it bothers them as well.

Advice: How to tell someone you don’t want to live with them

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Q. My flat has been the same for the first two years of university, there are four girls and two boys. Next year me and two of the other girls want to get a house together and move out of our flat. The two boys are doing placement years so it just leaves the one girl on her own. She doesn’t really join in with us and keeps herself to herself but she is expecting that we will be living together next year. How can we tell her that we don’t want to live with her without being mean.

A. Deciding where to live next year is always a big problem. Most people don’t seem to get on well with their flatmates and so move in with their course friends in the second and third years. You could sit her down and explain that you want to live the three of you, if she questions why then you need to be honest. It may seem harsh to say so but in the long run I am sure she would be happier knowing the truth.

Hangover cures!

You know the feeling: the rooms spinning; the stomachs churning; the light shining though the curtain starts to become painful and despite numerous attempts, you just can’t get your head off the pillow.

The pain doesn’t end here; in fact this is just the beginning. So, like most people you start asking questions. Why am I still fully dressed? Why do I have a number of messages from an unsaved number? Why have I responded to these messages? And why do I am stamps printed on the majority of my forearm?

Welcome to a hangover.

We’ve all been there, but how many people actually know what a hangover is?

Alcohol is poisonous to many of the bodies systems. Excessive amounts of alcohol can affect the liver, the brain, the gastrointestinal system, the central nervous system and sensory perception. It can disrupt your sleep and other body rhythms, affect your mood and affect your attention and concentration. The alcohol also has a diuretic effect which causes dehydration; which results in that horrendous dry mouth in the morning.

Although unavoidable, here are some handy tips on how to make a hangover just a little more bearable:

Powerade– Any energy drink will do; preferably not red bull after a heavy night at Superbull however. It’s packed with sugar and sorts out the dry mouth that comes hand in hand with a hangover. If you no you’re going out, purchase it the night before; seeing a bottle of Powerade staring at you in the morning will cheer you up instantly!

Food – So, the stomachs still churning, there’s a half eaten kebab on the floor and the thought of food pushes your queasiness to the edge. Food in this case though is a necessity. Bananas can replace potassium and other electrolytes that your body has lost so stock up on a couple of those. A good old fashioned round of eggs of toast is also a life saver in this situation; full of healthy nutrients and the combination of protein and carbohydrates is easy on the stomach!

Ibuprofen– Your liver’s already working its socks off to get rid of the high level of alcohol you consumed last night so steer clear of anything that could damage it further (Tylenol, Paracetamol). Make sure you’re safe with it though; no more than 2 every four hours and eight in total for the day.

Stay busy– Now I’m not advising that you try and climb any mountains on this day, however stimulating your brain is a great distraction from the hangover. Get some friends round, rent some films and have a good laugh.

Shower– If only you could wash away the night before! Although, having a shower in the morning will wake you up and get you started for the day. It will also rid you of any stamps you have on your arm and the make up from the night before.

5 tips to combat the procrastination bug

 

 

  • Give yourself a time pattern.
    If you know you can’t do more than an hour of work without distraction, give yourself a half an hour break. By giving yourself some rest from the assignment, it’ll give you time to relax for a while. Just remember to get back to that essay.
  • Organise yourself.
    Make sure you have everything you need before you start. Pens, pencils, laptop charger, fruit, water etc. If you prepare beforehand, you won’t have an excuse to stop working.

 

  • Make a list.
    Write down EXACTLY what you need to do for the assignment. Work your way through them one by one. By breaking your work into segments, the task won’t seem as difficult and daunting as you first thought!

 

  • Log off Facebook, Twitter and all social networking sites.
    I know I know, it’s difficult to do but it’s needed. Once you log out of your social networking sites there should be less distractions.

 

  •  Set goals.
    Spread out your work over a few days and set yourself a goal to finish by the end of each day. When you complete your goal, reward yourself with a treat. It sounds daft but hey, it works.

 

Are you a procrastinator? Sometimes students don’t even realise they procrastinate. Why don’t you take this test and see for yourself on mindtools.com?

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